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My ex and I broke up 7 weeks. We dated for about 3 months and in that time, he had become essentially my person. We broke up because the relationship was long-distance but he made it clear we’d be together if we lived in the same city. The other day, I got some really bad news and, out of instinct, I called him. During our call, I told him I missed our friendship to which he told me that he feels “enough time has passed” for us to be friends. What does that even mean? Is he over it after a few weeks? Does that mean our relationship didn’t actually mean anything to him? What do I do?
People say things like, “If we lived in the same city we’d totally be together” when they know it’s near impossible for what they said to come to fruition. It’s a way to let someone down easily. I will bet that if you countered by telling him your job moved you closer to him he would come up with yet another excuse to explain why you and he can’t be together.
He started the relationship fully cognizant of the distance. The distance isn’t the problem. He just said that it was because he needed an insurmountable reason why you and he wouldn’t work so as to avoid making it obvious he intentionally wasted your time. He didn’t want there to be any kind of debate about it.