Are You Dating An Avoidant or An Intensity Addict?
Unless you understand someone else’s attachment style, experience with anxiety or possible history of trauma, you have no idea what kind of Pandora’s Box you could be opening.
A couple of months ago, I met someone on Bumble who piqued my interest. After a video chat, we scheduled a walk for a first date. He texted in advance to ask if he could bring me coffee and if a hug would be okay. I thought this was considerate and a good sign. When we met, I felt electric chemistry, even though conversationally I had some reservations.…