Beware The Man That Makes No Effort
You are allowed to want a partner that clearly demonstrates his intentions and investment. In fact, that’s encouraged.
So I’ve been on four dates with this guy. The first two were in public on patios. The third one wasn’t really a date - he invited me over to drink with him and his roommate where he got completely drunk and kept going on about how much he likes me as I took care of him. We met up again the next day (pre-planned date) and ordered in and watched TV. We ho…