Did He Cheat Or Get Cold Feet?
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Was dating a guy exclusively for 3 months. We lived two hours apart so we spent our days off either at my place or his place consistently. Consistent phone calls consistent text.
I didn't like how he was treating me one day and I packed up and left. After I settle down I realized that I was behaving irrationally and impulsively and apologized and took full accountability for my behavior.
He responded but slowly and vaguely. I discovered him on Match the following night. Couple days later comes back around and says we don't need to be rash but is now refusing to be exclusive it states that he needs more time to think about whether he can go back to the way the relationship was.
I think you just found somebody else that he wants to see if it can work out with and wants to keep me on the side as his little life raft. I need some get your head out of your ass advice from you. Because I appreciate you.
First, I appreciate you for taking the time to tell me you value my advice.
People who struggle to identify and communicate their feelings often do what this man did. They act passive-aggressive in an attempt to push the other person away so they don’t have to be an adult and use their words.