Is He Broke, Cheap or Frugal?
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We discuss Cheesegate and the difference between being cheap and being frugal.
The letter below is answered, and we remind women that men have no problem wasting their time.
This nonsense is addressed. Women don’t make men lazy. Men make men lazy.
Finally, we discuss the notion that “there’s a lid for every pot” and why you should avoid singles/social groups if you’re trying to meet potential partners.
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Did Things Move Too Fast Or Is He a Douche?
I met a guy while on solo vacation in a different province (I’m in Canada). We matched online while I was there, decided to go on a date and clicked instantly. We ended up spending half my trip together, with him even staying over the night before my flight home so he could say goodbye at the airport. We decided to pursue a long distance relationship, since he coincidentally had plans to move to my city in a few months. It felt like fate.
We weren’t supposed to see each other for 12 weeks (his move date), but he missed me enough to book a flight to visit me a few weeks in advance. I should mention 10 days after we met, he asked me to be his girlfriend and we started talking about our future together (holidays, meeting parents etc). Fast forward, he flies to me and spends the weekend with me- even ends up meeting my parents. He tells me that I’m his future and he knows this was right.
At the end of the weekend, I take him to the airport and we have a sweet goodbye acknowledging we’d see each other again in 2-3 weeks. Four hours later, he lands back to his city and texts me a giant paragraph dumping me saying that something was off and that the relationship I needed wasn’t right for him. Can you tell me what the heck happened? I’m so confused.