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A little about me... single 5 years after a 10yr toxic relationship. Only in the last year of dating I have become somewhat open to having an actual boyfriend, but wondering if I'm now maybe too vigilant looking for red flags and seeing them where there isn't one. Last fall, I met a man and we had two dates. We didnt have sex but there was definitely chemistry. He was in a new job that's very demanding that requires a fair bit of travel Monday to Friday. I don't want to get into too many specifics, but it's in the same field as me and verifiable. However, his travel would cause him to be in my area from time to time but otherwise he lives 1.5hrs away (I'm in an area that's mostly small towns spread 1-2 hours away from each other). I also know he had to buy a home in the area of his job in order to have the job.