Rants & Raves: You Are Nobody's Option
Welcome to the first installment of my weekly Rants & Rave post where I discuss content I either love or loathe.
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Rave - You Are Nobody’s Option
This creator gets it. One of the many reasons I rail against the idea of a pull-away phase is that perpetuates the idea that if a woman is triggered by a man’s sudden disappearance or radio silence, she’s clingy. While this creator is talking more about a man ghosting than temporarily pulling away, my opinion still stands. A lot of coaches try to normalize men “pulling away” by telling women they must keep busy and have full lives lest they be too available. God forbid she be annoyed or hurt that the man she’s been dating has retreated to his man attic without warning.