Should You Be Friends With Someone Who Cheated On You?
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I caught my boyfriend of 10 years cheating on me with girl he met at bar. He said he wasn't sure what he wanted to do. I helped him decide. I kicked him out immediately. This was March 15th. No contact since then. I blocked him.
On his birthday, May 24th I see he is trying to call me. He sends me a text (in my blocked call mailbox) He said he is sorry and he doesn't want me to hate him. He wants us to be friends and he wants to come over to my house to help me out with things. I ignored his text.
Guessing his new girlfriend dumped him. If not, does he think she is going to be OK with him coming over to see me? How can I now be friends with him? He blew up my whole world over bar pussy. I loved him, should I try to be friends with him?
The clue here for me is this line:
I kicked him out immediately.