What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates
The thing about “instant connections” is that they usually involve one or both people making themselves atypically vulnerable.
An ex-boyfriend has reached out to me after breaking up 5 months ago. I agreed to talk with him and he very blatantly asked for a chance to try things again. He wants a relationship with me. During this time apart, he has made changes to his career (he’s active duty military who has decided to retire after 24 years). He also shared with me things regard…