Why Didn't He Text After They Slept Together?
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Went on a first date two weeks ago. He asked me out again for the following week on the spot. When I got home I followed your advice and sent a “thanks I had fun text”he replied but there was zero communication until the day we met up for a second time. During our second date he made a point of saying he prefers minimal communication between dates because he feels confident in our connection and enjoys catching up in person.
We hooked up and at the end of the evening he asked if I wanted to see him again but did not get into specifics. It’s been two days and I haven’t heard from him, and I cant help but feel like I’ve been left hanging.
He made his interest in me very clear during our date and I’m not a huge fan of texting tons either but we’re still in the early phases of ‘getting to know you’ which is why I don’t feel 100% at ease. I set up two dates with other people for the weekend because I’ve gotten invested too early in the past but SOME communication would be nice. Should the guy follow up after you’ve gotten intimate for the first time regardless of communication preferences?