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This specific pattern has happened to me multiple times that I have noticed there may be something wrong with me. I would match with a guy online dating app, talk to them for a few days and then they would ask for my number. We will talk for another few days via text and then they would ask me to FaceTime with them. This pattern had happened to me more than three or four times when after FaceTiming with these guys they either have become cold and slowly faded away or they have ghosted me all together. Prior to the FaceTime we would have great chemistry but somehow I tend to ruin it after FT. Is it my looks or my personality that scares these guys because they liked my pictures & my personality on text then what happens on FaceTime?!
This last guy I thought I could see my future with stopped responding to my text after FT. Please advise if I should just stop or ask him straight if he’s interested in meeting in person?
Let’s first establish that you are not doing anything wrong. Let’s say they felt as though there wasn’t a romantic spark. That has nothing to do with you. That’s about them and their expectations. We all develop expectations. It’s human nature. That said, here are some reasons they might have disappeared.
