They're not being thoughtful. They're treating you like an option.

As I've said in previous pod episodes, people reveal far more about themselves than they realize. Take this guy, for example. On the surface, starting a message with, "Would you be mad if..." might make the sender appear thoughtful and considerate.

I say FUCK THAT GUY. Or Girl. Or whoever utters a statement like this. It's a tell. Please watch this quick video when you have a moment to hear why.

Also, follow Jennie Young, Creator of The Burned Haystack Dating Message on IG.

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