I don't know what would possess a pregnant mistress to think they should come tell their side of this story, but here we are!
You can tell she's trying to justify what they did by building up their relationship that they had when they were younger before he got married. Like that somehow makes it OK that he completely betrayed his wife's trust.
Of course, she bought his sob story about how he was some abandoned husband who wasn't getting his needs met.
It's unclear if this woman thinks by telling her version of events that that will somehow garner her sympathy or if she's trying to frame the wife as a liar. Either way, she's doing too much and adding salt into the wife's wounds, which is unnecessary. And selfish.
As for him, it's clear that he played the victim. Like his mistress, he thought It would be smart for him to give his side of the story as well. Sir, for future reference, that is not necessary. We do not care. He started off strong by letting everybody know that he didn't blame them for hating him. But then came the "however" part. As in however...she cheated, too.
*Desperately searches for my corkscrew to open this bottle of Chardonnay.*
Just in case you think that's the end, here's a spoiler alert: It's not.
The Mistress played a recording of when she approached her man's wife back in March while she was unloading the car.
Not demure. Not cutesy. Not mindful.
She tells viewers that she was the one to break the news because she no longer wanted to be "the mistress." I think we all know the real reason.
The Mistress had this conversation with the wife because her man was a coward. He was hedging his bets so that he didn't end up alone. He wanted to see which relationship would last and who would break things off first. He didn't care either way. He just wanted to make sure he had somebody to take care of him.
Now that The Mistress has thrown herself under the bus, the majority of the focus is on her and not him.
As I have said countless times in the past, never do the heavy lifting for a man.
They will never appreciate it, and you will always regret it.
I am dying to hear what you guys think of this viral story.
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