Tiktok creator Esteeisonline vents about a recent experience with a man she met on a dating app. In the video, she shares that the man asked for her Instagram account. She reluctantly gave it to him, only for the guy to block her soon after.
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Requesting access to social media pages is a common step in dating online. Men and women both do it. The difference is in their motivations. Women want access to ensure their date doesn't pose a threat, be it emotionally or physically. Men ask for socials to determine one of two things:
What her body looks like from different angles
How much attention does she seek or receive from other men?
In this episode, we discuss why such a request from a straight man is a red flag. It reveals shallowness and entitlement. Whether it's a picture or in real life, men possess an entitlement to access women's bodies.
We also discuss burt_britt's storytime about a recent hinge date that would make any woman stop dating for good.
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